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Embark on an empowering journey through education, creativity, and self-discovery. Explore the anatomy of the vulva, debunk myths, and celebrate your body with love and curiosity in an affirming, inclusive, and non-judgmental space with yourself.
Download includes: Recommended supplies list, ritual instructions and vulva viewing suggestions
Rooting into yourself is grounding. Blooming into yourself is freeing.
This time is for you and your plant. Settle in with a clear intention.
What are you looking to grow in yourself? How can you nurture and care for yourself?
Kit Includes: Ritual Instructions, plant intention paper (plant and pot not included)
Every day you deserve love, joy and tenderness, ESPECIALLY from yourself.
Writing a love letter to yourself is a powerful act of self-affirmation, self-advocacy and self-celebration.
Whether you attended a workshop, private session or are exploring this practice on your own, this guide will help you begin.
Kit includes: Instructions, prompts and stationary
An afternoon to slow down, put pen to paper, and turn your attention toward the most important relationship in your life: YOU
This one is a little different. 💕
Sunday, September 27 at 1:30 PM
📍 215 24th Street, Sacramento
Join Ashley aka @Earthwisewoman and Patty of @my_own_soulmate for a special collaborative Word Flow exploring love from the inside out.
An afternoon to slow down, put pen to paper, and turn your attention toward the most important relationship in your life: the one you have with yourself.
Expect thoughtful conversation, creative writing, reflection, connection, and space to explore the ways we give, receive, seek, and experience love.
No writing experience necessary. Just bring a journal and a willingness to see yourself from a different perspective.
Women & women-identifying people, 18+
Donation suggested $11-$33
You asked- we listened. We're having one more community swap before the end of the year, hosted by Goddess Night Out and myOWNsoulmate.
Friday, November 27 3:00-6:00 pm
Sanctuary 📍 215 24th St, Sacramento
Donate gently used clothes and household items or simply show up to "shop"
Ahead of the holiday season, we also invite you to bring ready-to-wrap gifts to swap.
Join us in boycotting traditional shopping on Black Friday and celebrating the abundance already circulating within our community! The SWAP DON'T SHOP - An Anti Black Friday Community Gathering hosted by @my_own_soulmate is Friday, November 27 from 3-6 pm at @sanctuary.sacramento
Completely FREE to attend - no need to donate.
Simply shop, drop off, or both!
Drop off donations anytime before 2:00 pm on 11/27 or contact @my_own_soulmate for earlier drop off. Donations can also be dropped off during the event.
And be sure to read below to learn about the free raffle and how to enter to WIN! ✨
🎟️ Raffle Rules 🎟️
✨ follow both @my_own_soulmate and @sanctuary.sacramento and then comment and like the Swap Don't Shop post to enter.
✨You can get an additional entry at the event, and volunteers receive an extra entry as well (dm @my_own_soulmate or email Patty at myOWNsoulmate3@gmail.com if you'd like to volunteer).
✨No need to be present to win. Winners must pick up from Sanctuary within one week of being contacted.
Gather under the new moon for a workshop and sister circle, hosted by Goddess Night Out and myOWNsoulmate.
Sunday, November 8 1:00-3:00 pm
Sanctuary 📍 215 24th St, Sacramento
Let's take on Scorpio season with a deep dive!
💫 Did you know… each astrology sign correlates to a body part and Scorpio rules the genitalia?!
For the Scorpio New Moon, we’re diving into our own relationships with our “private parts” and reclaiming the power of connecting with the portal that is our VULVA!
The workshop aims to teach about the vulva as a pathway to better self-knowledge and enhanced self-love, using vulva appreciation as a doorway to a more profound connection with one’s body.
Participants will use the energy of the Scorpio New Moon to set intentions around dispelling the mystery of the vulva and embracing pleasure. Through creative and reflective practices, attendees will create a personalized vulva viewing mirror, which they can use in their own time and space to explore and appreciate their bodies (no vulva viewing will occur during the workshop.
Our Scorpio Season New Moon Workshop will be led by Goddess Night Out member, Patty Young of @my_own_soulmate 💞
Patty, founder of myOWNsoulmate, is a pleasure activist, rest advocate and sexual health educator. Her work focuses on supporting all women and femme folks by centering themselves and their community while actively decentering the male gaze and patriarchy.
All her offerings include queer, pleasure focused education, best practices on self love and care...with the encouragement to get naked and look at your gorgeous self every chance you get.
She has over a decade of experience in sexual health education and a lifetime of lessons that she brings to every space she holds.
If you’re looking to put your pleasure first and build community, contact Patty!
*This is a sliding-scale event. $33 - $55 💕
Please purchase tickets at https://goddessnightout.org/shop/workshops or contact Patty directly to pay via Venmo, Apple Pay or cash at the door.
✨ FREE entry for MEMBERS OF THE WELL (please RSVP to Patty directly if you are a member)
Sunday, July 26• 1:30-3:30 pm
Sanctuary 📍 215 24th St, Sacramento
Are you ready to write your very own smutty story? ❤️🔥
Join Ashley Devon Lopes (@earthwisewoman) and I for a donation-based writing circle all about using smut to explore your fantasies and share some of our favorite smutty novels.
This workshop will include creative prompts, guided practice, quiet writing time, and opportunity for sharing and feedback.
Open to all skill levels and genres of writing. Note, this is an 18+ adult content writing session.
Suggested donation is $11 - $44 via cash or Venmo at the door. Donations are not required, but appreciated. This event is free for the members of The Well.
Join Patty with myOWNsoulmate and Brandi of Studio B to make candles in community for the Winter Solstice.
Sunday, December 20 2:00 - 3:45 pm
Sanctuary 📍 215 24th St, Sacramento
Candles are used for many purposes and staying with the spirit of Winter Solstice we will be chatting about the changing of seasons and the coming months. Come, be in community and candle make with us! $25 covers all the supplies. Buy tickets on site day of or at myownsoulmate.com
✨ Craft & Chats ✨
A monthly gathering for creativity, connection, and sexual health education with myOWNsoulmate.
💖 Each month will have a new theme and creative activity.
Craft & Chats is a creative, welcoming space to come together, make something meaningful, and learn about sexual health topics in a way that feels affirming, gentle, and real. We spend so much time pouring love into others, this is a special moment to turn that care inward and honor yourself.
👜 What to bring:
• Yourself
• Friends (if you’d like!)
• An open mind
• Any comfort items that help you feel supported and loved
💸 Cost: $25
Includes the month's craft supplies, education, and a facilitated discussion.
No one will be turned away for lack of funds. Please reach out to Patty if cost is a barrier via Instagram or email: myownsoulmate3@gmail.com
The Well members receive a $10 discount
All adults welcome
💳 Payment accepted onsite:
Venmo, Apple Pay, PayPal, or cash
Come as you are. Leave a little more connected to yourself 💞
Sunday, June 28• 2:00 - 3:45 pm
Sanctuary 📍 215 24th St, Sacramento
This month's Craft & Chat features a very special guest: Ashley Lopes (@earthwisewoman). She will teach us how to make a zine while we chat about the importance of romanticizing OURSELVES in our daily life.
What is a zine? 🗞 A zine is a self-published work focusing on a particular topic or subject. Zines have a rich history of anti-capitalism, protest and resource sharing.
During this Craft & Chat, we will use the zine to combat ideas that we are not worthy of dating ourselves in a world that often tells us it is selfish to romatize our own lives.
🗓 Sunday, June 28th
⏰ 2:00–3:45 PM
📍 @Sanctuary.Sacramento, 215 24th St
$25 ticket gets craft, education session, & facilitated discussion.
No one turned away for lack of funds. Reach out if cost is a barrier
✨ Craft & Chats ✨
A monthly gathering for creativity, connection, and sexual health education with myOWNsoulmate.
💖 Each month will have a new theme and creative activity.
Craft & Chats is a creative, welcoming space to come together, make something meaningful, and learn about sexual health topics in a way that feels affirming, gentle, and real. We spend so much time pouring love into others, this is a special moment to turn that care inward and honor yourself.
👜 What to bring:
• Yourself
• Friends (if you’d like!)
• An open mind
• Any comfort items that help you feel supported and loved
💸 Cost: $25
Includes the month's craft supplies, education, and a facilitated discussion.
No one will be turned away for lack of funds. Please reach out to Patty if cost is a barrier via Instagram or email: myownsoulmate3@gmail.com
The Well members receive a $10 discount
All adults welcome
💳 Payment accepted onsite:
Venmo, Apple Pay, PayPal, or cash
Come as you are. Leave a little more connected to yourself 💞
Sunday, August 9• 2:00 - 3:45 pm
Sanctuary 📍 215 24th St, Sacramento.
Let’s take a selfie! 🤳
Join us for a special Craft and Chat on Sunday, 8/9 at 2pm featuring @tonyagersheyphotography.
We’ll chat about self love practices 💕 such as standing naked in the mirror, telling yourself that you are beautiful & finding the ways to love your body in every season and version.
Tonya will share helpful advice on how to take selfies 📸 in ways that express our authentic selves (and NOT a performance for others).
🗓 Sunday, August 9th
⏰ 2:00–3:45 PM
📍 Sanctuary Sacramento, 215 24th St
ticket comes with craft, education session, & facilitated discussion.
✨ Craft & Chats ✨
A monthly gathering for creativity, connection, and sexual health education with myOWNsoulmate.
💖 Each month will have a new theme and creative activity.
Craft & Chats is a creative, welcoming space to come together, make something meaningful, and learn about sexual health topics in a way that feels affirming, gentle, and real. We spend so much time pouring love into others, this is a special moment to turn that care inward and honor yourself.
👜 What to bring:
• Yourself
• Friends (if you’d like!)
• An open mind
• Any comfort items that help you feel supported and loved
💸 Cost: $25 when purchased on site or via www.myownsoulmate.com
Includes the month's craft supplies, education, and a facilitated discussion.
No one will be turned away for lack of funds. Please reach out to Patty if cost is a barrier via Instagram or email: myownsoulmate3@gmail.com
The Well members receive a $10 discount on tickets purchased on site
All adults welcome
💳 Payment accepted onsite:
Venmo, Apple Pay, PayPal, or cash
Come as you are. Leave a little more connected to yourself 💞
Sunday, May 10 • 2:00 - 3:45 pm
Sanctuary 📍 215 24th St, Sacramento
✨ Craft & Chats ✨
A monthly gathering for creativity, connection, and sexual health education with myOWNsoulmate.
💖 Each month will have a new theme and creative activity.
Craft & Chats is a creative, welcoming space to come together, make something meaningful, and learn about sexual health topics in a way that feels affirming, gentle, and real. We spend so much time pouring love into others, this is a special moment to turn that care inward and honor yourself.
👜 What to bring:
• Yourself
• Friends (if you’d like!)
• An open mind
• Any comfort items that help you feel supported and loved
💸 Cost: $25
Includes the month's craft supplies, education, and a facilitated discussion.
No one will be turned away for lack of funds. Please reach out to Patty if cost is a barrier via Instagram or email: myownsoulmate3@gmail.com
The Well members receive a $10 discount
All adults welcome
💳 Payment accepted onsite:
Venmo, Apple Pay, PayPal, or cash
Come as you are. Leave a little more connected to yourself 💞
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Sunday, July 26• 1:30-3:30 pm
Sanctuary 📍 215 24th St, Sacramento
Are you ready to write your very own smutty story? ❤️🔥
Join Ashley Devon Lopes (@earthwisewoman) and I for a donation-based writing circle all about using smut to explore your fantasies and share some of our favorite smutty novels.
This workshop will include creative prompts, guided practice, quiet writing time, and opportunity for sharing and feedback.
Open to all skill levels and genres of writing. Note, this is an 18+ adult content writing session.
Suggested donation is $11 - $44 via cash or Venmo at the door. Donations are not required, but appreciated. This event is free for the members of The Well.
Sunday, June 28• 2:00 - 3:45 pm
Sanctuary 📍 215 24th St, Sacramento
This month's Craft & Chat features a very special guest: Ashley Lopes (@earthwisewoman). She will teach us how to make a zine while we chat about the importance of romanticizing OURSELVES in our daily life.
What is a zine? 🗞 A zine is a self-published work focusing on a particular topic or subject. Zines have a rich history of anti-capitalism, protest and resource sharing.
During this Craft & Chat, we will use the zine to combat ideas that we are not worthy of dating ourselves in a world that often tells us it is selfish to romatize our own lives.
🗓 Sunday, June 28th
⏰ 2:00–3:45 PM
📍 @Sanctuary.Sacramento, 215 24th St
$25 ticket gets craft, education session, & facilitated discussion.
No one turned away for lack of funds. Reach out if cost is a barrier
✨ Craft & Chats ✨
A monthly gathering for creativity, connection, and sexual health education with myOWNsoulmate.
💖 Each month will have a new theme and creative activity.
Craft & Chats is a creative, welcoming space to come together, make something meaningful, and learn about sexual health topics in a way that feels affirming, gentle, and real. We spend so much time pouring love into others, this is a special moment to turn that care inward and honor yourself.
👜 What to bring:
• Yourself
• Friends (if you’d like!)
• An open mind
• Any comfort items that help you feel supported and loved
💸 Cost: $25
Includes the month's craft supplies, education, and a facilitated discussion.
No one will be turned away for lack of funds. Please reach out to Patty if cost is a barrier via Instagram or email: myownsoulmate3@gmail.com
The Well members receive a $10 discount
All adults welcome
💳 Payment accepted onsite:
Venmo, Apple Pay, PayPal, or cash
Come as you are. Leave a little more connected to yourself 💞
Sunday, May 10 • 2:00 - 3:45 pm
Sanctuary 📍 215 24th St, Sacramento
✨ Craft & Chats ✨
A monthly gathering for creativity, connection, and sexual health education with myOWNsoulmate.
💖 Each month will have a new theme and creative activity.
Craft & Chats is a creative, welcoming space to come together, make something meaningful, and learn about sexual health topics in a way that feels affirming, gentle, and real. We spend so much time pouring love into others, this is a special moment to turn that care inward and honor yourself.
👜 What to bring:
• Yourself
• Friends (if you’d like!)
• An open mind
• Any comfort items that help you feel supported and loved
💸 Cost: $25
Includes the month's craft supplies, education, and a facilitated discussion.
No one will be turned away for lack of funds. Please reach out to Patty if cost is a barrier via Instagram or email: myownsoulmate3@gmail.com
The Well members receive a $10 discount
All adults welcome
💳 Payment accepted onsite:
Venmo, Apple Pay, PayPal, or cash
Come as you are. Leave a little more connected to yourself 💞
Sunday, August 9• 2:00 - 3:45 pm
Sanctuary 📍 215 24th St, Sacramento.
Let’s take a selfie! 🤳
Join us for a special Craft and Chat on Sunday, 8/9 at 2pm featuring @tonyagersheyphotography.
We’ll chat about self love practices 💕 such as standing naked in the mirror, telling yourself that you are beautiful & finding the ways to love your body in every season and version.
Tonya will share helpful advice on how to take selfies 📸 in ways that express our authentic selves (and NOT a performance for others).
🗓 Sunday, August 9th
⏰ 2:00–3:45 PM
📍 Sanctuary Sacramento, 215 24th St
ticket comes with craft, education session, & facilitated discussion.
✨ Craft & Chats ✨
A monthly gathering for creativity, connection, and sexual health education with myOWNsoulmate.
💖 Each month will have a new theme and creative activity.
Craft & Chats is a creative, welcoming space to come together, make something meaningful, and learn about sexual health topics in a way that feels affirming, gentle, and real. We spend so much time pouring love into others, this is a special moment to turn that care inward and honor yourself.
👜 What to bring:
• Yourself
• Friends (if you’d like!)
• An open mind
• Any comfort items that help you feel supported and loved
💸 Cost: $25 when purchased on site or via www.myownsoulmate.com
Includes the month's craft supplies, education, and a facilitated discussion.
No one will be turned away for lack of funds. Please reach out to Patty if cost is a barrier via Instagram or email: myownsoulmate3@gmail.com
The Well members receive a $10 discount on tickets purchased on site
All adults welcome
💳 Payment accepted onsite:
Venmo, Apple Pay, PayPal, or cash
Come as you are. Leave a little more connected to yourself 💞